Sorry if it may look unfamiliar, but the private messaging engine is active only for internal support between coders/designers and the clients. Regular users have no private messaging for a simple reason: we have a forum!
We want to keep most of the conversations on the forum, to avoid spam and flaming in private. We know the song, it’s not the only place where it occurs, we just want to prevent. It’s nothing personal to you, it’s « just » for everybody.
Thanks for your understanding.